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Tuesday, August 07, 2007

VERY BRAVE!

A family friend's mother died last Saturday, she was 95, her funeral was this afternoon.

I've only left Alice a few times:
  1. The first time was after 8 days, in China, when I had to go to the British Consulate to get her entry visa granted, I cried after I left her (hadn't thought through the 'leaving her' part of visiting the Consulate!) Later that day I went shopping and later again to visit a fellow adoptive Mum, but both times she was asleep. N looked after her.
  2. The following week I went to an aqua aerobics session, Alice was asleep, I rushed home afterwards. T was 'on Alice duty'!
  3. Last week I took Daisy to the vet to get her nails clipped and whilst I was out I took the car to be 'listened to' at the local garage, I thought it was making a funny noise, it was, it isn't any longer now that the rear wheel bearings have been replaced! T again.
  4. Today for the funeral.
I arranged the fabulous T to babysit Alice and went to the funeral and tea, I was away for nearly 3 hours, I was very brave but couldn't wait to get home!! Alice hardly noticed that I'd returned - she was transfixed by some noisy, music making children's programme.

Still counting the times away from my new baby - can you tell I'm a new mum?!

2 comments:

Janet said...

Sorry to hear about your friend's mum - big hugs to you and your friend (((((((((()))))))))))

Yes you do sound like a new mum :-) But I can still remember the first time I left each of mine and they are 18, 13 and 4 now :-)

Love
Janet

Ellen said...

Hi Kate: Can completely empathise with your emotions around leaving Alice. I'm not sure it gets easier ... I think we just get used to the idea. It was only yesterday that I actually left A with someone she knows well (at my friend's house so not in familiar surroundings). It was just for a few hours. As with Alice, A did fine but was certainly glad to see me! I was so uneasy, though, until I saw her and held her again. BUT as it turns out she was "recognised"! A woman in the playground where she was playing with Godmother recognised her from the photos on yahoo and our blog! How's THAT for fame! I imagine the same might happen for Alice one day - especially with that fab and stylish "do" that she's got! Not many can pull off such a trendy and beautifully unique look! Ellen xx